The break-up of a (marital) relationship is often a complicated, emotional and sometimes painful process. Due to power imbalances, women in religious marriages in particular may face additional obstacles if they want to separate: - women have fewer possibilities for divorce, as this may be determined by religious or national laws, for example; - women are sometimes completely dependent upon the cooperation of their (ex-)partner; - in many religious communities there is a taboo on divorce, or the negative status of 'divorced woman' deters women from initiating divorce proceedings; - for many women, divorce has serious financial consequences: in exchange for a divorce, they must sometimes bear the costs incurred or renounce financial rights (bridal gift, right to alimony, property).

Complexity of marital captivity
Situations of marital captivity are varied and sometimes complex, especially if there are causes and/or effects abroad. At times it is even unclear where and how the marriage can be dissolved, for instance in the absence of (religious) authority. A combination of factors often play a role. For example, women who are (or have been) victims of domestic violence do not always have the courage to request a divorce, because they are afraid that the situation will escalate or lead to honour killings. Additionally, this can trigger arguments over custody of the children or the threat of child abduction. Other obstacles include a troubled relationship with the country of origin (refugees), or limited financial means and few connections abroad to settle the divorce. In many cases the (ex-)partner does not cooperate, and harasses and/or blackmails his (ex-)wife; wounded pride frequently plays a role in this.

Religion and law
Some religions do not recognise divorce, such as the Catholic church, which only offers the possibility to annul a marriage; this tends to be a long and sometimes costly and emotional procedure. Furthermore, the laws in the country of origin can prevent the dissolution of the marriage, or lead to unwanted consequences. In some religions, the cooperation of the husband is required for a divorce. And if a woman is divorced under civil law, the religious community in the Netherlands or in the country of origin may still consider her to be married, which limits her possibilities. For example, she may not receive communion or start a new relationship, as she would then be committing adultery. In certain countries women can lose custody of their children in a divorce, especially if they decide to remarry.

Fighting marital captivity is an important emancipation issue that demands structural solutions. During the expert meeting, starting points were mentioned which included: - harness the potential for change within the community itself, with government support; - call the problem a human rights problem and then take the Istanbul Convention as a starting point, so that the government is obliged to take action; - spread knowledge about marital captivity as widely as possible in society, so that experts, religious authorities, migrant communities and other stakeholders develop a clearer picture and more awareness of the problem.

The study was conducted by Esther van Eijk from Maastricht University as part of a multi-year multidisciplinary research project entitled 'Marital Captivity: Bridging the gap between religion and law'. Based on these research findings, Atria compiled a fact sheet.